12 Things A Woman Should Never Do For A Man She Is Not Yet Married To.
Sadly, most women don't know that there are responsibilities meant for a wife and no else. Hence, when she starts playing the role of a wife, she 'devaluing' herself in the relationship.
Here are 12 things you should never for a man, when you're not born married to him:
1. She should never use words of endearment on any man:
Except for her family members and a man engaged to her, every lady should learn to call men by their names and leave off the 'dear', 'sweetie', 'hun' and all of that. If he is not married to you and has not made a commitment in that direction, please his name would just be fine.
2. Never think of sleeping over at his place:
Most women don't know that men don't always value things that could be gotten very easily. If he is not married to you, you have no business staying the night at a man's place, except an emergency situation warrants that. If a man is so in love with you and wants you to perpetually 'sleep over' at his place, he knows what to do.
3. Never opt to cook for him at his place:
If you're not married to him, it is important to note that you're are a visitor at his place and should be treated as such, whenever you come visiting. Never respond to the urge to act as the 'Mother Hen', by cooking at his house. As a matter of fact, the man should treat you to nice meals, whenever you come visiting.
4. Never visit his parent's house:
When a man is not married to you and you start visiting your imaginary in-laws, you are only setting yourself up for disappointment. A man's inability to propose to you or get married to you, before introducing you to his parents is such a red flag. Don't think of playing the 'prospective daughter-in-law' role, as you may never be that.
5. Never let his friends call you 'our wife':
If you're not his wifez you are simply not! No other words better explain it. If he doesn't have what it takes to commit to you, you surely have no reason to smile when his friends try to humour you with those words.
6. Never let him on your financial life or lend him outrageous sums:
If he is not married to you, by all means keep him out of your finances. By doing this, you are safeguarding your heart from being exploited because trust me, when he's broke or has run into a financial crisis, you'll be the one he will turn to for aid.
7. Never pay his bills:
You may think you're being benevolent, bug you're playing byhe role of a wife and that is one mistake too many. I understand that individuals sometimes get stranded, however, never make it normal for you to pay his bills.
8. Never buy expensive gifts for a man you're not married to:
When you get pricey gifts for a man you're not married to, you may just be sending the wrong signals to him. He may now begin to chase you for the financial gains, that come with it. Besides, you may just be coming off as too desperate.
9. Never allow him 'squat' with you:
No matter how financially stable you are and how comfortable your house is, never allow a man, who is not married to you, move in with you. He doesn't have the right to and such, the thought should never be entertained.
10. Never give a man you're not married to, the right to drive your car:
Some things are the exclusive preserve of the man your are married to. Hence, if the man you're seeing is not married to you, please let him learn to drive his own car or make use of public transport, if he doesn't have his own car.
11. She should never do chores, in his house:
Trust me, doing chores in the house of a man you're not married to, doesn't show how well-trained you are. Every woman should know that if he is not married to you, he has hands and can as well handle the chores in his own house.
12. Never have a joint account with a man you're not married to:
Some ladies do this and this so unwise. You may like the man, but the greatest show of his love for you is in his commitment. Hence, since he is not married to you, never share a bank account with him, neither should you allow him access to your atm card.
I hope this information, will help you to think and act wiser.
God bless and keep you.
