Bontle Modiselle speaks on having 2 miscarriages & being a new mom

Choreographer, radio and TV host Bontle Modiselle shares what took place in her life before conceiving her newborn baby girl, her fears and difficulties she has come across. In a nutshell, she has just spoken on what is experienced in a pregnant woman or a new mom, that it should not break you, but make you.

With just a few days after sharing beautiful pictures of her new baby, Bontle has taken once again to her social media and shared her journey to having the new baby girl. Taking to Instagram, she said;

‘Brace yourself. || I know my pregnancy journey looked easy. My approach was deliberate. Intentional! I made certain to dance my way through it. To have someone inspired to see and feel pregnancy differently was a goal. However, my difficulties never made it to the socials.

Some day, I’ll fill you in on the insecurities, the psychological, emotional, physical and spiritual hurdles I went through following the two miscarriages I had before the successful birth of my baby Afrika.


I’ll speak openly about the fears that challenged me and had me asking myself if I would ever be woman enough to create and carry life through. But for now, I want to remain and bask in the glory of not being a victim of what once hurt me immensely but being the victor of the mommy I am.

Talk about God’s will being done in God’s perfect time. So….Bring on the swelling, discoloration, the stretch marks, soft spots & cellulite. I’m not immune. Let me have a field day with the sleepless nights, the countless nappy changes and random cries trying to figure out what she needs.

Let me fall in love with the newer imperfections my body has inherited. These are the vain concerns I’d trade in any day for my baby, who I now get to stare at, hold, kiss and love unconditionally. This image is Day 10 of my post-partum and we still take it a day at a time…with greater intent. The approach remains the same – go into each day with courage, with love, resilience and knowing that I am able!

I will continue to dance through it all. New mommies, despite your difficulties, I encourage you to do the same – simply because WE ARE ABLE! ❤️‘

Through this post, she also meant to empower all the new mommies to conquer all the difficulties because they are the winning team.

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